Sunday, June 21, 2009
SWINGER LIFESTYLE
A swinger lifestyle is free from a world of frustration and lost loves. The swinger’s lifestyle simply gives and receive pleasure, but there are a few important points to remember if you are to enter a swinger lifestyle:
No one should swing unless they really want to.
No one should ever go into a swinging life style if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner.
Swinger's life style is based upon communication more then any other factors. Couples involved in swinger’s lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another. Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the life style.
Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle :
Soft swinging – This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.
Closed swinging – This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.
Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.
When you enter a swinger life style you must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free. Many swingers would say they practice safe sex, but they probably don’t. So some kinds of health risks always exist. It is up to you to make your own judgment.
More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. Online swinger clubs helps you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations. It makes you aware of a whole new culture and the many different ways to make love. When you experience a swinger’s life style you would enjoy the power of a touch, the romance of a kiss, the meaning of fondles and the excitement of a caress.
No one should swing unless they really want to.
No one should ever go into a swinging life style if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner.
Swinger's life style is based upon communication more then any other factors. Couples involved in swinger’s lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another. Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the life style.
Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle :
Soft swinging – This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.
Closed swinging – This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.
Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.
When you enter a swinger life style you must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free. Many swingers would say they practice safe sex, but they probably don’t. So some kinds of health risks always exist. It is up to you to make your own judgment.
More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. Online swinger clubs helps you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations. It makes you aware of a whole new culture and the many different ways to make love. When you experience a swinger’s life style you would enjoy the power of a touch, the romance of a kiss, the meaning of fondles and the excitement of a caress.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
HOW TO MAKE LOVE
How to make Love?
Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together. Lovemaking should be a time when you and your partner both feel relaxed, secure and happy. Though this may be true, many people stress out when the thought of making love comes to mind because they are trying so hard to figure out what the right way to make love is. Is there is a �Right� way? Read the following information and find out what makes lovemaking great and unforgettable:
Get in touch with Yourself. Before taking that step to make love, it is important that you get in touch with yourself first. What is the status of your self-esteem? Having a high and healthy self-esteem makes a big difference in your lovemaking performances. If there is something about yourself that makes you insecure, set a goal on conquering that insecurity. Keep working on it until you feel the security you feel comfortable and happy with.
Practice with your Fantasies. No one knows what makes you satisfied more than you. Most people never get the passion they truly desire for the simple reason that they are to afraid and shy to introduce their fantasies to the bedroom. Pay attention to the fantasies you produce and replay them over and over again until you feel strong and confident enough to really act them out with your lover.
Explore & Touch. Good and unforgettable lovemaking does not magically happen by itself. It requires effort and exploration. If you and your partner agreed to be intimate and are experiencing sexual activity together, then there is no need to fear from exploring each other�s bodies. Take your time to admire and touch the details of your partner�s body. Intimate touching makes a bigger difference than most people think. Observing your partner�s body will grow your appreciation for him or her, as well as arouse you more. He or she will also feel pleasure and special, which is always good!
Talk about it. Talking about your intimacy with you partner may make you feel embarrassed or silly, but it is something to seriously consider if you are not getting what you need and want behind those bedroom doors. If you do not talk about, your frustration will only increase until you longer feel any desire to make love to your partner. The two of you feel secure enough to see each other naked, so having a conversation about it should not have to be an issue. Even if you are overall satisfied with your lovemaking routines, talking about it still does good to your relationship because you will acknowledge each other�s great lovemaking skills, appreciate each other, and draw you closer together.
Warm up First. Exercise always requires a good warm in order to get better results. The same goes for making love. You should never just jump into it because it shows the lower value you put on the intimate time you share with your partner. Sure, there are times you will want to be spontaneous and just go for it, but even then, you cannot just demand it and take it. Add some romantic ingredients to your lovemaking course. Examples would be, going out to your favorite romantic restaurant, watching a sunset on the beach, watching a movie you both enjoy, giving each other a massage, taking a warm bubble bath together and so on. Find out what works best for you!
Flirt with each other! Couples who have been together for a while no longer feel the need to flirt with one another. They feel it is something people do when they are single and trying to score with someone. Flirting is even better when you are in a relationship. You both know each other and feel secure, making you more comfortable to say whatever is on your mind. So go ahead and flirt with your partner and tease him or her into the bedroom!
Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together. Lovemaking should be a time when you and your partner both feel relaxed, secure and happy. Though this may be true, many people stress out when the thought of making love comes to mind because they are trying so hard to figure out what the right way to make love is. Is there is a �Right� way? Read the following information and find out what makes lovemaking great and unforgettable:
Get in touch with Yourself. Before taking that step to make love, it is important that you get in touch with yourself first. What is the status of your self-esteem? Having a high and healthy self-esteem makes a big difference in your lovemaking performances. If there is something about yourself that makes you insecure, set a goal on conquering that insecurity. Keep working on it until you feel the security you feel comfortable and happy with.
Practice with your Fantasies. No one knows what makes you satisfied more than you. Most people never get the passion they truly desire for the simple reason that they are to afraid and shy to introduce their fantasies to the bedroom. Pay attention to the fantasies you produce and replay them over and over again until you feel strong and confident enough to really act them out with your lover.
Explore & Touch. Good and unforgettable lovemaking does not magically happen by itself. It requires effort and exploration. If you and your partner agreed to be intimate and are experiencing sexual activity together, then there is no need to fear from exploring each other�s bodies. Take your time to admire and touch the details of your partner�s body. Intimate touching makes a bigger difference than most people think. Observing your partner�s body will grow your appreciation for him or her, as well as arouse you more. He or she will also feel pleasure and special, which is always good!
Talk about it. Talking about your intimacy with you partner may make you feel embarrassed or silly, but it is something to seriously consider if you are not getting what you need and want behind those bedroom doors. If you do not talk about, your frustration will only increase until you longer feel any desire to make love to your partner. The two of you feel secure enough to see each other naked, so having a conversation about it should not have to be an issue. Even if you are overall satisfied with your lovemaking routines, talking about it still does good to your relationship because you will acknowledge each other�s great lovemaking skills, appreciate each other, and draw you closer together.
Warm up First. Exercise always requires a good warm in order to get better results. The same goes for making love. You should never just jump into it because it shows the lower value you put on the intimate time you share with your partner. Sure, there are times you will want to be spontaneous and just go for it, but even then, you cannot just demand it and take it. Add some romantic ingredients to your lovemaking course. Examples would be, going out to your favorite romantic restaurant, watching a sunset on the beach, watching a movie you both enjoy, giving each other a massage, taking a warm bubble bath together and so on. Find out what works best for you!
Flirt with each other! Couples who have been together for a while no longer feel the need to flirt with one another. They feel it is something people do when they are single and trying to score with someone. Flirting is even better when you are in a relationship. You both know each other and feel secure, making you more comfortable to say whatever is on your mind. So go ahead and flirt with your partner and tease him or her into the bedroom!
PRECAUTIONS FOR GREATER SEX SAFETY
Precautions for greater safety
Penetrative vaginal sex - a condom should be put on before any genital contact, especially if the woman isn't using additional, reliable birth control. There are enough live sperm and germs at the tip of an erect penis to cause pregnancy or infection without penetration or ejaculation.
Penetrative anal sex - use a non-spermicidally-lubricated condom with extra water-based or silicone lubricant at all times. It's useful to wear an extra-strong condom, but more important to use sufficient lubrication, without which the condom is more likely to burst. Never move from anal to vaginal sex without changing the condom. If there's no spare condom handy, move from the vagina to the anus.
Foreplay - cover cuts, sores and other skin lesions on fingers with waterproof plasters or latex gloves, particularly during a menstrual period or if anal foreplay is involved. If you don't have latex gloves to hand, it's safer to use a non-spermicidally-lubricated condom over one or two fingers than bare hands. If you're not using protection and you're going to move on to vaginal foreplay, it's vital to wash your hands after anal foreplay.
Sex toys - if you're sharing toys, use the same level of protection as for penetrative sex. Wash toys thoroughly between partners. Keep whips, chains and other articles used during S&M (sadomasochistic) fetish foreplay for personal use, particularly if you draw blood (or body fluids containing blood) during use.
Masturbation - there's no risk of infection if you're alone and using unshared items, unless a disease from one part of the body infects another through poor hygiene technique. An unwashed finger, for example, can spread genital gonorrhoea or chlamydia to the eye. During masturbation with a partner, follow the guidelines for foreplay.
SEX PRAISE
S.E.X., is here to save the day! S.E.X. is an articulate, comprehensive, and just plain fun resource on all things sex. Covering topics ranging from sexuality to relationships to safer sex (and every step in between), Corinna deftly presents each issue with a refreshingly straightforward, accurate, and honest approach....S.E.X. sets out to empower young adults to make healthy, informed decisions about their sexuality and begins with a wonderful challenge: “I want you to choose to create a healthy, happy and fulfilling sexual life that is fantastic for you and for everyone else in it.” This challenge is at the heart of every chapter... While S.E.X. is aimed primarily at adolescents and young adults, it has a lot to offer for any adults with teenagers in their lives—or with questions of their own! S.E.X. addresses the potential awkwardness of talking with a teenager about sexuality and suggests multiple ways to open up communication; plus it’s a great way to brush up on your own knowledge surrounding sexuality and become another source of good information.
Chapter after chapter, Corinna reaffirms that her goal is for her readers to make informed, healthy choices that best suit their lives. She sets them up to do just that by framing each chapter—and the book as a whole—from a holistic view that acknowledges that things like body image, health, relationships, and support networks all play a role in sexual health. With S.E.X., Corinna has created an exceptional book that levels with young adults and provides the comprehensive information and resources necessary for making informed choiced
"S.E.X. is a positive and informative all-embracing guide to sexuality by a dedicated author. Heather Corinna challenges adolescents and young adults alike to be proactive in owning their sexuality by being true to themselves, all the while laying the foundation of knowledge and acceptance key factors for the development of a healthy sexuality.
"We thought we were liberated and informed, but Heather Corinna puts us to shame. In S.E.X. You get answers to everything you were afraid, embarrassed or didn't know to ask.
Friday, June 19, 2009
SITTING AND KNEELING POSITION
Sitting and kneeling positions -
are probably a novelty more than anything else for most people. They never feature in the lists of people's top ten favorite positions - one survey showed they were used less than once in every fifty times a couple have sex. This may be because they're just not very enjoyable, difficult to get into, or simply not very satisfying physically. Their biggest advantage must lie in the fact that they're so unusual and it's different and exciting to try them out. Having said that, sitting positions can be good for a couple who lack flexibility and who therefore want to make love in a chair rather than on the bed.
are probably a novelty more than anything else for most people. They never feature in the lists of people's top ten favorite positions - one survey showed they were used less than once in every fifty times a couple have sex. This may be because they're just not very enjoyable, difficult to get into, or simply not very satisfying physically. Their biggest advantage must lie in the fact that they're so unusual and it's different and exciting to try them out. Having said that, sitting positions can be good for a couple who lack flexibility and who therefore want to make love in a chair rather than on the bed.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
हाउ तो मके फर्स्ट टाइम सेक्स अ फबुलोउस SEX
The ultimate bedside companion-packed with erotic yet practical tips for men and women
Practical, down-to-earth, explicit and fun, Hot Sex is the must-have sex and relationships book for every man and woman.
It's perfect bedtime reading for two, an easy-to-follow handbook that cuts straight to the nitty-gritty to deliver candid advice with a healthy dose of humor. Packed with tips and techniques that work, Hot Sex includes everything from a blow-by-blow, step-by-step guide to oral sex to finding (and figuring out) your G-spot.
Whether you're a beginner or an old hand, get into Hot Sex-the only how-to that really tells you how to do it!
Inside, there are tips on:
Foreplay: Not just the appetizer, it can be the main course (and dessert) as well!Orgasm: The 30 (if you're lucky) seconds we go to so-o-o-o much effort forPerformance Problems: Some of the reasons sex goes wrong and how to get it lustily back on trackEveryday Couples, Exceptional Sex: I'm sorry, did you say monogamy or monotony?
Anyone can be good in bed. Genital size doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. You don't have to have legs up to your chin, arms like Schwarzenegger, drive a sports car, or be rolling in it to be the best lover your partner's ever had. But you do need a good, working knowledge of your subject. And that's easier said than done.
Nearly everyone talks about sex. We're always boasting about how fabulous so-and-so is in bed and hinting at the real reason why we look so tired at work (nudge, nudge, wink, wink). But it's a rare person who'll confess details or talk specifics. Jane might well confide that Brad gives the best oral sex she's ever had, but she doesn't launch into a lick-by-lick analysis of why-and I bet you don't ask for one.
That's why we buy sex books-to find out the nitty-gritty details about things we're too embarrassed to ask friends or lovers. Trouble is, few deliver what we really want to know. Sex manuals tend to gloss over the practical bread-and-butter stuff and, instead, talk in generalities-like how women need clitoral stimulation and men's butts are a veritable hot spot. Great advice but, if you haven't got the foggiest of what to do with it, useless.
This is where Hot Sex is different. Instead of assuming you know everything, I've assumed you know nothing and have dished up all the gory details in an easy-to-follow, step-by-step format. The only way I could have been more explicit and specific is to be there in the bedroom with you, guiding your hands and whatever else you're using (and, to tell the truth, I'd really rather not).
That's not to say the book only deals with the basics. Experienced lovers will get loads out of Hot Sex because there are enough advanced tips, tricks, and techniques to keep even Annie Sprinkle happy. But I do suggest everyone read the introductory chapters. Very often it's the people who think they know what they're doing who need educating the most. Sex is a bit like typing. You can get by using two fingers, but you'll never be as good as someone who did the secretarial course and practiced every night. Going back to the grassroots level, even if it's just to check you're on the right track, isn't a bad idea for all of us. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise: sex skills can be learned and we can all improve on them.
I've written the book using everyday language for similar reasons. The correct, technical terms sound terribly authoritative but if you don't know that a wet dream is actually called a nocturnal emission, you wouldn't have a clue what I was talking about if I used this term. Sometimes, the words I use aren't even accurate. Most people say sperm when they actually mean semen, for instance. But, hey, if that's what you call it, that's what I've called it a lot of the time because I want you to relate to what I'm saying.
I'm also guilty of making some broad generalizations about sex. Hopefully, there aren't too many, but if you read something that you personally don't agree with, forgive me. If I covered every single individual preference, research finding, exception, and extreme, I'd still be madly typing
Hot Sex is designed to be read cover to cover but it is equally useful if you dip into it for inspiration when the mood strikes. Because good sex is only possible if both the people having it are committed to making it great, I've included guides for him and her wherever possible. Hot Sex isn't ageist either. There's info on all the different stages of our sexual lives: everything from first-time masturbation and losing your virginity to having sex when you're pregnant and taking the monotony out of monogamy. Add hints on ditching those inhibitions, tips on building effective communication skills, and loads of relationship advice, and you really can't help but shred the sheets!
Practical, down-to-earth, explicit and fun, Hot Sex is the must-have sex and relationships book for every man and woman.
It's perfect bedtime reading for two, an easy-to-follow handbook that cuts straight to the nitty-gritty to deliver candid advice with a healthy dose of humor. Packed with tips and techniques that work, Hot Sex includes everything from a blow-by-blow, step-by-step guide to oral sex to finding (and figuring out) your G-spot.
Whether you're a beginner or an old hand, get into Hot Sex-the only how-to that really tells you how to do it!
Inside, there are tips on:
Foreplay: Not just the appetizer, it can be the main course (and dessert) as well!Orgasm: The 30 (if you're lucky) seconds we go to so-o-o-o much effort forPerformance Problems: Some of the reasons sex goes wrong and how to get it lustily back on trackEveryday Couples, Exceptional Sex: I'm sorry, did you say monogamy or monotony?
Anyone can be good in bed. Genital size doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. You don't have to have legs up to your chin, arms like Schwarzenegger, drive a sports car, or be rolling in it to be the best lover your partner's ever had. But you do need a good, working knowledge of your subject. And that's easier said than done.
Nearly everyone talks about sex. We're always boasting about how fabulous so-and-so is in bed and hinting at the real reason why we look so tired at work (nudge, nudge, wink, wink). But it's a rare person who'll confess details or talk specifics. Jane might well confide that Brad gives the best oral sex she's ever had, but she doesn't launch into a lick-by-lick analysis of why-and I bet you don't ask for one.
That's why we buy sex books-to find out the nitty-gritty details about things we're too embarrassed to ask friends or lovers. Trouble is, few deliver what we really want to know. Sex manuals tend to gloss over the practical bread-and-butter stuff and, instead, talk in generalities-like how women need clitoral stimulation and men's butts are a veritable hot spot. Great advice but, if you haven't got the foggiest of what to do with it, useless.
This is where Hot Sex is different. Instead of assuming you know everything, I've assumed you know nothing and have dished up all the gory details in an easy-to-follow, step-by-step format. The only way I could have been more explicit and specific is to be there in the bedroom with you, guiding your hands and whatever else you're using (and, to tell the truth, I'd really rather not).
That's not to say the book only deals with the basics. Experienced lovers will get loads out of Hot Sex because there are enough advanced tips, tricks, and techniques to keep even Annie Sprinkle happy. But I do suggest everyone read the introductory chapters. Very often it's the people who think they know what they're doing who need educating the most. Sex is a bit like typing. You can get by using two fingers, but you'll never be as good as someone who did the secretarial course and practiced every night. Going back to the grassroots level, even if it's just to check you're on the right track, isn't a bad idea for all of us. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise: sex skills can be learned and we can all improve on them.
I've written the book using everyday language for similar reasons. The correct, technical terms sound terribly authoritative but if you don't know that a wet dream is actually called a nocturnal emission, you wouldn't have a clue what I was talking about if I used this term. Sometimes, the words I use aren't even accurate. Most people say sperm when they actually mean semen, for instance. But, hey, if that's what you call it, that's what I've called it a lot of the time because I want you to relate to what I'm saying.
I'm also guilty of making some broad generalizations about sex. Hopefully, there aren't too many, but if you read something that you personally don't agree with, forgive me. If I covered every single individual preference, research finding, exception, and extreme, I'd still be madly typing
Hot Sex is designed to be read cover to cover but it is equally useful if you dip into it for inspiration when the mood strikes. Because good sex is only possible if both the people having it are committed to making it great, I've included guides for him and her wherever possible. Hot Sex isn't ageist either. There's info on all the different stages of our sexual lives: everything from first-time masturbation and losing your virginity to having sex when you're pregnant and taking the monotony out of monogamy. Add hints on ditching those inhibitions, tips on building effective communication skills, and loads of relationship advice, and you really can't help but shred the sheets!
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