How to make Love?
Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together. Lovemaking should be a time when you and your partner both feel relaxed, secure and happy. Though this may be true, many people stress out when the thought of making love comes to mind because they are trying so hard to figure out what the right way to make love is. Is there is a �Right� way? Read the following information and find out what makes lovemaking great and unforgettable:
Get in touch with Yourself. Before taking that step to make love, it is important that you get in touch with yourself first. What is the status of your self-esteem? Having a high and healthy self-esteem makes a big difference in your lovemaking performances. If there is something about yourself that makes you insecure, set a goal on conquering that insecurity. Keep working on it until you feel the security you feel comfortable and happy with.
Practice with your Fantasies. No one knows what makes you satisfied more than you. Most people never get the passion they truly desire for the simple reason that they are to afraid and shy to introduce their fantasies to the bedroom. Pay attention to the fantasies you produce and replay them over and over again until you feel strong and confident enough to really act them out with your lover.
Explore & Touch. Good and unforgettable lovemaking does not magically happen by itself. It requires effort and exploration. If you and your partner agreed to be intimate and are experiencing sexual activity together, then there is no need to fear from exploring each other�s bodies. Take your time to admire and touch the details of your partner�s body. Intimate touching makes a bigger difference than most people think. Observing your partner�s body will grow your appreciation for him or her, as well as arouse you more. He or she will also feel pleasure and special, which is always good!
Talk about it. Talking about your intimacy with you partner may make you feel embarrassed or silly, but it is something to seriously consider if you are not getting what you need and want behind those bedroom doors. If you do not talk about, your frustration will only increase until you longer feel any desire to make love to your partner. The two of you feel secure enough to see each other naked, so having a conversation about it should not have to be an issue. Even if you are overall satisfied with your lovemaking routines, talking about it still does good to your relationship because you will acknowledge each other�s great lovemaking skills, appreciate each other, and draw you closer together.
Warm up First. Exercise always requires a good warm in order to get better results. The same goes for making love. You should never just jump into it because it shows the lower value you put on the intimate time you share with your partner. Sure, there are times you will want to be spontaneous and just go for it, but even then, you cannot just demand it and take it. Add some romantic ingredients to your lovemaking course. Examples would be, going out to your favorite romantic restaurant, watching a sunset on the beach, watching a movie you both enjoy, giving each other a massage, taking a warm bubble bath together and so on. Find out what works best for you!
Flirt with each other! Couples who have been together for a while no longer feel the need to flirt with one another. They feel it is something people do when they are single and trying to score with someone. Flirting is even better when you are in a relationship. You both know each other and feel secure, making you more comfortable to say whatever is on your mind. So go ahead and flirt with your partner and tease him or her into the bedroom!
Saturday, June 20, 2009
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