Sunday, June 21, 2009
SWINGER LIFESTYLE
A swinger lifestyle is free from a world of frustration and lost loves. The swinger’s lifestyle simply gives and receive pleasure, but there are a few important points to remember if you are to enter a swinger lifestyle:
No one should swing unless they really want to.
No one should ever go into a swinging life style if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner.
Swinger's life style is based upon communication more then any other factors. Couples involved in swinger’s lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another. Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the life style.
Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle :
Soft swinging – This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.
Closed swinging – This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.
Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.
When you enter a swinger life style you must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free. Many swingers would say they practice safe sex, but they probably don’t. So some kinds of health risks always exist. It is up to you to make your own judgment.
More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. Online swinger clubs helps you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations. It makes you aware of a whole new culture and the many different ways to make love. When you experience a swinger’s life style you would enjoy the power of a touch, the romance of a kiss, the meaning of fondles and the excitement of a caress.
No one should swing unless they really want to.
No one should ever go into a swinging life style if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner.
Swinger's life style is based upon communication more then any other factors. Couples involved in swinger’s lifestyle should have the ability to talk openly about there feelings with one another. Learning to do this must precede any decision or discussion of entering the life style.
Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle :
Soft swinging – This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.
Closed swinging – This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.
Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.
When you enter a swinger life style you must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free. Many swingers would say they practice safe sex, but they probably don’t. So some kinds of health risks always exist. It is up to you to make your own judgment.
More and more people are getting into swinger life style as this give couples and individuals a break for the senseless tension and demanding stress in their daily life. Refreshing sex is the best antidote to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before. Online swinger clubs helps you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations. It makes you aware of a whole new culture and the many different ways to make love. When you experience a swinger’s life style you would enjoy the power of a touch, the romance of a kiss, the meaning of fondles and the excitement of a caress.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
HOW TO MAKE LOVE
How to make Love?
Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together. Lovemaking should be a time when you and your partner both feel relaxed, secure and happy. Though this may be true, many people stress out when the thought of making love comes to mind because they are trying so hard to figure out what the right way to make love is. Is there is a �Right� way? Read the following information and find out what makes lovemaking great and unforgettable:
Get in touch with Yourself. Before taking that step to make love, it is important that you get in touch with yourself first. What is the status of your self-esteem? Having a high and healthy self-esteem makes a big difference in your lovemaking performances. If there is something about yourself that makes you insecure, set a goal on conquering that insecurity. Keep working on it until you feel the security you feel comfortable and happy with.
Practice with your Fantasies. No one knows what makes you satisfied more than you. Most people never get the passion they truly desire for the simple reason that they are to afraid and shy to introduce their fantasies to the bedroom. Pay attention to the fantasies you produce and replay them over and over again until you feel strong and confident enough to really act them out with your lover.
Explore & Touch. Good and unforgettable lovemaking does not magically happen by itself. It requires effort and exploration. If you and your partner agreed to be intimate and are experiencing sexual activity together, then there is no need to fear from exploring each other�s bodies. Take your time to admire and touch the details of your partner�s body. Intimate touching makes a bigger difference than most people think. Observing your partner�s body will grow your appreciation for him or her, as well as arouse you more. He or she will also feel pleasure and special, which is always good!
Talk about it. Talking about your intimacy with you partner may make you feel embarrassed or silly, but it is something to seriously consider if you are not getting what you need and want behind those bedroom doors. If you do not talk about, your frustration will only increase until you longer feel any desire to make love to your partner. The two of you feel secure enough to see each other naked, so having a conversation about it should not have to be an issue. Even if you are overall satisfied with your lovemaking routines, talking about it still does good to your relationship because you will acknowledge each other�s great lovemaking skills, appreciate each other, and draw you closer together.
Warm up First. Exercise always requires a good warm in order to get better results. The same goes for making love. You should never just jump into it because it shows the lower value you put on the intimate time you share with your partner. Sure, there are times you will want to be spontaneous and just go for it, but even then, you cannot just demand it and take it. Add some romantic ingredients to your lovemaking course. Examples would be, going out to your favorite romantic restaurant, watching a sunset on the beach, watching a movie you both enjoy, giving each other a massage, taking a warm bubble bath together and so on. Find out what works best for you!
Flirt with each other! Couples who have been together for a while no longer feel the need to flirt with one another. They feel it is something people do when they are single and trying to score with someone. Flirting is even better when you are in a relationship. You both know each other and feel secure, making you more comfortable to say whatever is on your mind. So go ahead and flirt with your partner and tease him or her into the bedroom!
Making love is a sexual activity that expresses the love, passion, care and other strong feelings you have for another person. It is a beautiful and emotional experience that can bring two people closer and closer together. Lovemaking should be a time when you and your partner both feel relaxed, secure and happy. Though this may be true, many people stress out when the thought of making love comes to mind because they are trying so hard to figure out what the right way to make love is. Is there is a �Right� way? Read the following information and find out what makes lovemaking great and unforgettable:
Get in touch with Yourself. Before taking that step to make love, it is important that you get in touch with yourself first. What is the status of your self-esteem? Having a high and healthy self-esteem makes a big difference in your lovemaking performances. If there is something about yourself that makes you insecure, set a goal on conquering that insecurity. Keep working on it until you feel the security you feel comfortable and happy with.
Practice with your Fantasies. No one knows what makes you satisfied more than you. Most people never get the passion they truly desire for the simple reason that they are to afraid and shy to introduce their fantasies to the bedroom. Pay attention to the fantasies you produce and replay them over and over again until you feel strong and confident enough to really act them out with your lover.
Explore & Touch. Good and unforgettable lovemaking does not magically happen by itself. It requires effort and exploration. If you and your partner agreed to be intimate and are experiencing sexual activity together, then there is no need to fear from exploring each other�s bodies. Take your time to admire and touch the details of your partner�s body. Intimate touching makes a bigger difference than most people think. Observing your partner�s body will grow your appreciation for him or her, as well as arouse you more. He or she will also feel pleasure and special, which is always good!
Talk about it. Talking about your intimacy with you partner may make you feel embarrassed or silly, but it is something to seriously consider if you are not getting what you need and want behind those bedroom doors. If you do not talk about, your frustration will only increase until you longer feel any desire to make love to your partner. The two of you feel secure enough to see each other naked, so having a conversation about it should not have to be an issue. Even if you are overall satisfied with your lovemaking routines, talking about it still does good to your relationship because you will acknowledge each other�s great lovemaking skills, appreciate each other, and draw you closer together.
Warm up First. Exercise always requires a good warm in order to get better results. The same goes for making love. You should never just jump into it because it shows the lower value you put on the intimate time you share with your partner. Sure, there are times you will want to be spontaneous and just go for it, but even then, you cannot just demand it and take it. Add some romantic ingredients to your lovemaking course. Examples would be, going out to your favorite romantic restaurant, watching a sunset on the beach, watching a movie you both enjoy, giving each other a massage, taking a warm bubble bath together and so on. Find out what works best for you!
Flirt with each other! Couples who have been together for a while no longer feel the need to flirt with one another. They feel it is something people do when they are single and trying to score with someone. Flirting is even better when you are in a relationship. You both know each other and feel secure, making you more comfortable to say whatever is on your mind. So go ahead and flirt with your partner and tease him or her into the bedroom!
PRECAUTIONS FOR GREATER SEX SAFETY
Precautions for greater safety
Penetrative vaginal sex - a condom should be put on before any genital contact, especially if the woman isn't using additional, reliable birth control. There are enough live sperm and germs at the tip of an erect penis to cause pregnancy or infection without penetration or ejaculation.
Penetrative anal sex - use a non-spermicidally-lubricated condom with extra water-based or silicone lubricant at all times. It's useful to wear an extra-strong condom, but more important to use sufficient lubrication, without which the condom is more likely to burst. Never move from anal to vaginal sex without changing the condom. If there's no spare condom handy, move from the vagina to the anus.
Foreplay - cover cuts, sores and other skin lesions on fingers with waterproof plasters or latex gloves, particularly during a menstrual period or if anal foreplay is involved. If you don't have latex gloves to hand, it's safer to use a non-spermicidally-lubricated condom over one or two fingers than bare hands. If you're not using protection and you're going to move on to vaginal foreplay, it's vital to wash your hands after anal foreplay.
Sex toys - if you're sharing toys, use the same level of protection as for penetrative sex. Wash toys thoroughly between partners. Keep whips, chains and other articles used during S&M (sadomasochistic) fetish foreplay for personal use, particularly if you draw blood (or body fluids containing blood) during use.
Masturbation - there's no risk of infection if you're alone and using unshared items, unless a disease from one part of the body infects another through poor hygiene technique. An unwashed finger, for example, can spread genital gonorrhoea or chlamydia to the eye. During masturbation with a partner, follow the guidelines for foreplay.
SEX PRAISE
S.E.X., is here to save the day! S.E.X. is an articulate, comprehensive, and just plain fun resource on all things sex. Covering topics ranging from sexuality to relationships to safer sex (and every step in between), Corinna deftly presents each issue with a refreshingly straightforward, accurate, and honest approach....S.E.X. sets out to empower young adults to make healthy, informed decisions about their sexuality and begins with a wonderful challenge: “I want you to choose to create a healthy, happy and fulfilling sexual life that is fantastic for you and for everyone else in it.” This challenge is at the heart of every chapter... While S.E.X. is aimed primarily at adolescents and young adults, it has a lot to offer for any adults with teenagers in their lives—or with questions of their own! S.E.X. addresses the potential awkwardness of talking with a teenager about sexuality and suggests multiple ways to open up communication; plus it’s a great way to brush up on your own knowledge surrounding sexuality and become another source of good information.
Chapter after chapter, Corinna reaffirms that her goal is for her readers to make informed, healthy choices that best suit their lives. She sets them up to do just that by framing each chapter—and the book as a whole—from a holistic view that acknowledges that things like body image, health, relationships, and support networks all play a role in sexual health. With S.E.X., Corinna has created an exceptional book that levels with young adults and provides the comprehensive information and resources necessary for making informed choiced
"S.E.X. is a positive and informative all-embracing guide to sexuality by a dedicated author. Heather Corinna challenges adolescents and young adults alike to be proactive in owning their sexuality by being true to themselves, all the while laying the foundation of knowledge and acceptance key factors for the development of a healthy sexuality.
"We thought we were liberated and informed, but Heather Corinna puts us to shame. In S.E.X. You get answers to everything you were afraid, embarrassed or didn't know to ask.
Friday, June 19, 2009
SITTING AND KNEELING POSITION
Sitting and kneeling positions -
are probably a novelty more than anything else for most people. They never feature in the lists of people's top ten favorite positions - one survey showed they were used less than once in every fifty times a couple have sex. This may be because they're just not very enjoyable, difficult to get into, or simply not very satisfying physically. Their biggest advantage must lie in the fact that they're so unusual and it's different and exciting to try them out. Having said that, sitting positions can be good for a couple who lack flexibility and who therefore want to make love in a chair rather than on the bed.
are probably a novelty more than anything else for most people. They never feature in the lists of people's top ten favorite positions - one survey showed they were used less than once in every fifty times a couple have sex. This may be because they're just not very enjoyable, difficult to get into, or simply not very satisfying physically. Their biggest advantage must lie in the fact that they're so unusual and it's different and exciting to try them out. Having said that, sitting positions can be good for a couple who lack flexibility and who therefore want to make love in a chair rather than on the bed.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
हाउ तो मके फर्स्ट टाइम सेक्स अ फबुलोउस SEX
The ultimate bedside companion-packed with erotic yet practical tips for men and women
Practical, down-to-earth, explicit and fun, Hot Sex is the must-have sex and relationships book for every man and woman.
It's perfect bedtime reading for two, an easy-to-follow handbook that cuts straight to the nitty-gritty to deliver candid advice with a healthy dose of humor. Packed with tips and techniques that work, Hot Sex includes everything from a blow-by-blow, step-by-step guide to oral sex to finding (and figuring out) your G-spot.
Whether you're a beginner or an old hand, get into Hot Sex-the only how-to that really tells you how to do it!
Inside, there are tips on:
Foreplay: Not just the appetizer, it can be the main course (and dessert) as well!Orgasm: The 30 (if you're lucky) seconds we go to so-o-o-o much effort forPerformance Problems: Some of the reasons sex goes wrong and how to get it lustily back on trackEveryday Couples, Exceptional Sex: I'm sorry, did you say monogamy or monotony?
Anyone can be good in bed. Genital size doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. You don't have to have legs up to your chin, arms like Schwarzenegger, drive a sports car, or be rolling in it to be the best lover your partner's ever had. But you do need a good, working knowledge of your subject. And that's easier said than done.
Nearly everyone talks about sex. We're always boasting about how fabulous so-and-so is in bed and hinting at the real reason why we look so tired at work (nudge, nudge, wink, wink). But it's a rare person who'll confess details or talk specifics. Jane might well confide that Brad gives the best oral sex she's ever had, but she doesn't launch into a lick-by-lick analysis of why-and I bet you don't ask for one.
That's why we buy sex books-to find out the nitty-gritty details about things we're too embarrassed to ask friends or lovers. Trouble is, few deliver what we really want to know. Sex manuals tend to gloss over the practical bread-and-butter stuff and, instead, talk in generalities-like how women need clitoral stimulation and men's butts are a veritable hot spot. Great advice but, if you haven't got the foggiest of what to do with it, useless.
This is where Hot Sex is different. Instead of assuming you know everything, I've assumed you know nothing and have dished up all the gory details in an easy-to-follow, step-by-step format. The only way I could have been more explicit and specific is to be there in the bedroom with you, guiding your hands and whatever else you're using (and, to tell the truth, I'd really rather not).
That's not to say the book only deals with the basics. Experienced lovers will get loads out of Hot Sex because there are enough advanced tips, tricks, and techniques to keep even Annie Sprinkle happy. But I do suggest everyone read the introductory chapters. Very often it's the people who think they know what they're doing who need educating the most. Sex is a bit like typing. You can get by using two fingers, but you'll never be as good as someone who did the secretarial course and practiced every night. Going back to the grassroots level, even if it's just to check you're on the right track, isn't a bad idea for all of us. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise: sex skills can be learned and we can all improve on them.
I've written the book using everyday language for similar reasons. The correct, technical terms sound terribly authoritative but if you don't know that a wet dream is actually called a nocturnal emission, you wouldn't have a clue what I was talking about if I used this term. Sometimes, the words I use aren't even accurate. Most people say sperm when they actually mean semen, for instance. But, hey, if that's what you call it, that's what I've called it a lot of the time because I want you to relate to what I'm saying.
I'm also guilty of making some broad generalizations about sex. Hopefully, there aren't too many, but if you read something that you personally don't agree with, forgive me. If I covered every single individual preference, research finding, exception, and extreme, I'd still be madly typing
Hot Sex is designed to be read cover to cover but it is equally useful if you dip into it for inspiration when the mood strikes. Because good sex is only possible if both the people having it are committed to making it great, I've included guides for him and her wherever possible. Hot Sex isn't ageist either. There's info on all the different stages of our sexual lives: everything from first-time masturbation and losing your virginity to having sex when you're pregnant and taking the monotony out of monogamy. Add hints on ditching those inhibitions, tips on building effective communication skills, and loads of relationship advice, and you really can't help but shred the sheets!
Practical, down-to-earth, explicit and fun, Hot Sex is the must-have sex and relationships book for every man and woman.
It's perfect bedtime reading for two, an easy-to-follow handbook that cuts straight to the nitty-gritty to deliver candid advice with a healthy dose of humor. Packed with tips and techniques that work, Hot Sex includes everything from a blow-by-blow, step-by-step guide to oral sex to finding (and figuring out) your G-spot.
Whether you're a beginner or an old hand, get into Hot Sex-the only how-to that really tells you how to do it!
Inside, there are tips on:
Foreplay: Not just the appetizer, it can be the main course (and dessert) as well!Orgasm: The 30 (if you're lucky) seconds we go to so-o-o-o much effort forPerformance Problems: Some of the reasons sex goes wrong and how to get it lustily back on trackEveryday Couples, Exceptional Sex: I'm sorry, did you say monogamy or monotony?
Anyone can be good in bed. Genital size doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. You don't have to have legs up to your chin, arms like Schwarzenegger, drive a sports car, or be rolling in it to be the best lover your partner's ever had. But you do need a good, working knowledge of your subject. And that's easier said than done.
Nearly everyone talks about sex. We're always boasting about how fabulous so-and-so is in bed and hinting at the real reason why we look so tired at work (nudge, nudge, wink, wink). But it's a rare person who'll confess details or talk specifics. Jane might well confide that Brad gives the best oral sex she's ever had, but she doesn't launch into a lick-by-lick analysis of why-and I bet you don't ask for one.
That's why we buy sex books-to find out the nitty-gritty details about things we're too embarrassed to ask friends or lovers. Trouble is, few deliver what we really want to know. Sex manuals tend to gloss over the practical bread-and-butter stuff and, instead, talk in generalities-like how women need clitoral stimulation and men's butts are a veritable hot spot. Great advice but, if you haven't got the foggiest of what to do with it, useless.
This is where Hot Sex is different. Instead of assuming you know everything, I've assumed you know nothing and have dished up all the gory details in an easy-to-follow, step-by-step format. The only way I could have been more explicit and specific is to be there in the bedroom with you, guiding your hands and whatever else you're using (and, to tell the truth, I'd really rather not).
That's not to say the book only deals with the basics. Experienced lovers will get loads out of Hot Sex because there are enough advanced tips, tricks, and techniques to keep even Annie Sprinkle happy. But I do suggest everyone read the introductory chapters. Very often it's the people who think they know what they're doing who need educating the most. Sex is a bit like typing. You can get by using two fingers, but you'll never be as good as someone who did the secretarial course and practiced every night. Going back to the grassroots level, even if it's just to check you're on the right track, isn't a bad idea for all of us. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise: sex skills can be learned and we can all improve on them.
I've written the book using everyday language for similar reasons. The correct, technical terms sound terribly authoritative but if you don't know that a wet dream is actually called a nocturnal emission, you wouldn't have a clue what I was talking about if I used this term. Sometimes, the words I use aren't even accurate. Most people say sperm when they actually mean semen, for instance. But, hey, if that's what you call it, that's what I've called it a lot of the time because I want you to relate to what I'm saying.
I'm also guilty of making some broad generalizations about sex. Hopefully, there aren't too many, but if you read something that you personally don't agree with, forgive me. If I covered every single individual preference, research finding, exception, and extreme, I'd still be madly typing
Hot Sex is designed to be read cover to cover but it is equally useful if you dip into it for inspiration when the mood strikes. Because good sex is only possible if both the people having it are committed to making it great, I've included guides for him and her wherever possible. Hot Sex isn't ageist either. There's info on all the different stages of our sexual lives: everything from first-time masturbation and losing your virginity to having sex when you're pregnant and taking the monotony out of monogamy. Add hints on ditching those inhibitions, tips on building effective communication skills, and loads of relationship advice, and you really can't help but shred the sheets!
Friday, June 12, 2009
WAYS TO KEEP SEX EXCITING
Bring sensuous food into the bedroom
Try different locations--in nature, in the kitchen, the bath.
Keep the romance alive with music, candles, flower pedals on the bed
Flirt with her all night, whisper in her ear all the things you're going to do to her later. She'll be so worked up by the time you get to the bedroom, she'll probably burst.
Don't just focus on the orgasm. Just as there's a lot more to softball than hitting a home run, there's a lot more to sex than coming. Spend time on her whole body. See how long you can go without orgasming.
Try different toys like dildos and vibrators. Sex toys can turn a dull night into something fun.
Don't let your insecurity get in the way. You saw how letting loose and getting loud turned her on, imagine if you take control one night and run the show.
Don't fall into predictable patterns. I touch you here, you touch me there, I do you, you do me gets old pretty quick. Add variety, switch things up.
Sex is a two-way street. It's give and take, communication and sharing. A successful sex life demands that both of you put effort in
Most importantly, make a commitment to having a great sex life. Be committed to learning new things, trying new things and discussing what you do and don't like. Be bold?
Try different locations--in nature, in the kitchen, the bath.
Keep the romance alive with music, candles, flower pedals on the bed
Flirt with her all night, whisper in her ear all the things you're going to do to her later. She'll be so worked up by the time you get to the bedroom, she'll probably burst.
Don't just focus on the orgasm. Just as there's a lot more to softball than hitting a home run, there's a lot more to sex than coming. Spend time on her whole body. See how long you can go without orgasming.
Try different toys like dildos and vibrators. Sex toys can turn a dull night into something fun.
Don't let your insecurity get in the way. You saw how letting loose and getting loud turned her on, imagine if you take control one night and run the show.
Don't fall into predictable patterns. I touch you here, you touch me there, I do you, you do me gets old pretty quick. Add variety, switch things up.
Sex is a two-way street. It's give and take, communication and sharing. A successful sex life demands that both of you put effort in
Most importantly, make a commitment to having a great sex life. Be committed to learning new things, trying new things and discussing what you do and don't like. Be bold?
10 TIPS TO MAKE SEX
Take things slowlySavor this moment. While you may be a little too tired to have the most technically excellent sex of your lives, this is likely to be among your most romantic and intimate sexual experiences.
Lower your expectationsSo this may not be the most amazing sex you've ever had. So what? Try to just enjoy whatever happens.
Read some sex booksWho couldn't use a little advice from the experts?
Talk to each otherSpend some time relaxing, talking about the wedding, and about your love for each other. Let things get romantic and sappy. The sex that follows will be intimate and amazing.
Expand your idea of the "wedding night"If you're too tired for foreplay, that sex isn't going to be so great. Couldn't it be better to wait until the morning?
Flirt with each other during the wedding It can be easy to spend the whole wedding greeting Aunt Sally and Cousin Bob, cutting the cake, and attending to a thousand other details. Don't forget to stop, stare into each other's eyes, share a few extra kisses, and flirt with each other. It will also help build the excitement for your alone time later.
Don't have sex with each other for a couple of weeks before the weddingMany couples try this to make the wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so that they may be virgin-like on the wedding night.
Try something new Perhaps there's been something you've been wanting to try? Your wedding night can be a fun night to experiment,
Wear something special Wedding night lingerie can really help the mood. Pick something a little different than what you usually wear to excite your partner. Make sure you feel confident in it, as a confident lover is almost always a better lover.
Set the stage Help yourselves get into the mood by setting the stage. Light some candles, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rosepetals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand! It's also a good idea to accept the fact that you may be too exhausted or tipsy to have sex. If one of you falls asleep, or isn't in the mood, remember, it's not a prediction
Lower your expectationsSo this may not be the most amazing sex you've ever had. So what? Try to just enjoy whatever happens.
Read some sex booksWho couldn't use a little advice from the experts?
Talk to each otherSpend some time relaxing, talking about the wedding, and about your love for each other. Let things get romantic and sappy. The sex that follows will be intimate and amazing.
Expand your idea of the "wedding night"If you're too tired for foreplay, that sex isn't going to be so great. Couldn't it be better to wait until the morning?
Flirt with each other during the wedding It can be easy to spend the whole wedding greeting Aunt Sally and Cousin Bob, cutting the cake, and attending to a thousand other details. Don't forget to stop, stare into each other's eyes, share a few extra kisses, and flirt with each other. It will also help build the excitement for your alone time later.
Don't have sex with each other for a couple of weeks before the weddingMany couples try this to make the wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so that they may be virgin-like on the wedding night.
Try something new Perhaps there's been something you've been wanting to try? Your wedding night can be a fun night to experiment,
Wear something special Wedding night lingerie can really help the mood. Pick something a little different than what you usually wear to excite your partner. Make sure you feel confident in it, as a confident lover is almost always a better lover.
Set the stage Help yourselves get into the mood by setting the stage. Light some candles, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rosepetals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand! It's also a good idea to accept the fact that you may be too exhausted or tipsy to have sex. If one of you falls asleep, or isn't in the mood, remember, it's not a prediction
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
WHY YOU WILL LOVE IT
Tell your partner to lie back, propping up his head and shoulders with a pillow, and have him spread his legs slightly. While you're facing the same direction — your back is to his face — lower yourself onto his hardened penis. Put your feet between his legs on the floor or the bed. Take your right hand and place it on his right hip bone and your left hand on the bed next to his left hip bone. Use your hands and feet to move your body up and down on his shaft.
WHY YOU'LL LOVE IT:The movement of your seat is the key to the Love Seat. With both your hands and feet controlling your motion, ride your behind up and down at a pace that feels best. While you're doing all the work, give your man's hands a pleasure project and have him massage your butt, back, neck, and other sexy spots he doesn't always have access to.
Feeling but not seeing your partner lets you experiment with a fantasy or two. Give yourself momentary permission to pretend he's Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, or a total stranger. A Cosmo word of caution: Just be sure you're calling out the right guy's name!
WHY YOU'LL LOVE IT:The movement of your seat is the key to the Love Seat. With both your hands and feet controlling your motion, ride your behind up and down at a pace that feels best. While you're doing all the work, give your man's hands a pleasure project and have him massage your butt, back, neck, and other sexy spots he doesn't always have access to.
Feeling but not seeing your partner lets you experiment with a fantasy or two. Give yourself momentary permission to pretend he's Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, or a total stranger. A Cosmo word of caution: Just be sure you're calling out the right guy's name!
THE GREAT SEX POSITION
When it comes to sex positions, after a while it's only natural to fall back on your old favourites. And there's nothing really wrong with that, except that, well, it's kind of dull. So mix things up! Experiment! Surprise your guy with something unexpected!
Digging Deep sex position
We're most familiar with man-on-top positions. They're great for gazing lustily into each other's eyes. And as an added bonus, they're terrific for deep penetration. For fans of deep, intense penetration and enthusiastic thrusting, you can't beat this position.
With this variation, the top half of your body can't move much, but you can make up for it by moving your pelvis both up and down and side to side.
First, lie back on the bed with your torso and bottom on the bed and your legs resting on the floor. When he penetrates, you bend your knees back toward your stomach while he supports himself on his hands and thrusts forward. It's best for him to keep one of his legs on the floor for support and the other on the bed for balance.
If it still doesn't feel like he's penetrated deeply enough - you greedy girl - pull your knees even further back and rest your calves on his shoulders, or, heck, show off by demonstrating just how handy that Pilates class really was by crossing your ankles behind his neck. Add extra frisson by holding your own hands above your head to give the illusion you're tied up. Better still, get him to actually do it!
The Sex Squat sex position
Urgent, animal and aggressive, rear-entry positions are used by most couples when they're both massively turned on. He can thrust more powerfully here than in any other position, and while some women flinch at the thought (Ouch! You just hit my cervix!), most are huge fans.
Because you can't see each other, it's great for fantasising (being unfaithful is obviously much better in your head than actually in your bed). And although it looks energetic, you can respond as little or as much as you like.
Up the lust level by doing it in front of a mirror, or vary it by alternating between leaning forward on your forearms and sitting up straight, leaning back and letting him kiss your neck.
For my new twist on that old favourite, you'll need a chair, and it's important that it's sturdy. If you can, secure it against something or put it near a table or window ledge (a good idea, maybe, to draw the curtains while you're there), which he can grab onto to keep things steady.
Once that's set up, you stand on the chair facing away from him, then get in a squatting position with your hands on the back of the chair for support. He puts his hands on your waist or clasps the top of your thighs and penetrates gently.
It may help if he puts one leg on the chair to keep it steady while leaving the other on the floor. As I said, keep it s-l-o-w. Move your bottom from side to side for a unique, intense sensation.
Digging Deep sex position
We're most familiar with man-on-top positions. They're great for gazing lustily into each other's eyes. And as an added bonus, they're terrific for deep penetration. For fans of deep, intense penetration and enthusiastic thrusting, you can't beat this position.
With this variation, the top half of your body can't move much, but you can make up for it by moving your pelvis both up and down and side to side.
First, lie back on the bed with your torso and bottom on the bed and your legs resting on the floor. When he penetrates, you bend your knees back toward your stomach while he supports himself on his hands and thrusts forward. It's best for him to keep one of his legs on the floor for support and the other on the bed for balance.
If it still doesn't feel like he's penetrated deeply enough - you greedy girl - pull your knees even further back and rest your calves on his shoulders, or, heck, show off by demonstrating just how handy that Pilates class really was by crossing your ankles behind his neck. Add extra frisson by holding your own hands above your head to give the illusion you're tied up. Better still, get him to actually do it!
The Sex Squat sex position
Urgent, animal and aggressive, rear-entry positions are used by most couples when they're both massively turned on. He can thrust more powerfully here than in any other position, and while some women flinch at the thought (Ouch! You just hit my cervix!), most are huge fans.
Because you can't see each other, it's great for fantasising (being unfaithful is obviously much better in your head than actually in your bed). And although it looks energetic, you can respond as little or as much as you like.
Up the lust level by doing it in front of a mirror, or vary it by alternating between leaning forward on your forearms and sitting up straight, leaning back and letting him kiss your neck.
For my new twist on that old favourite, you'll need a chair, and it's important that it's sturdy. If you can, secure it against something or put it near a table or window ledge (a good idea, maybe, to draw the curtains while you're there), which he can grab onto to keep things steady.
Once that's set up, you stand on the chair facing away from him, then get in a squatting position with your hands on the back of the chair for support. He puts his hands on your waist or clasps the top of your thighs and penetrates gently.
It may help if he puts one leg on the chair to keep it steady while leaving the other on the floor. As I said, keep it s-l-o-w. Move your bottom from side to side for a unique, intense sensation.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
HOW TO MAKE SEX
Make sure she wants it. Do not pressure a woman into being intimate. If she feels like she never has a chance to seduce you, she will begin to resent the pressure. Make her feel wanted, but also give her a chance to be the seductress.
Step 2
Women enjoy the touching and cuddling much more that men seem to. Hold her for awhile. Make her feel safe.
Step 3
If you know your woman is dying be intimate, make her wait a little. Kiss her from head to toe, lick her body.
Step 4
Pay special attention to the neck and ears. The ears in particular are a sensitive erotic spot for most women. Just a little nibbling and blowing.
Step 5
Run your fingers all over her body very gently. Do not lick it like a hound dog though. Gently, gently.
Step 6
Some women like breast fondling and others do not. Do not assume that all women enjoy this. The breasts are a very sensitive area. Focus on this area to some degree, but do not get carried away.
Step 7
You will know when she is ready for intimacy. Be sure to follow her lead. Women are all about emotions. If you can get in touch with her in an emotional sense, you will be surprised at the level of intimacy that can be achieve
Tips & Warnings
Do not rush. It takes time to get this right.
Pay attention to facial expressions.
If she is reading a book or watching tv there is a problem.
Light scented candles, throw rose petals on the bed.
Women love the romance.
Make her feel special. Look into her eyes.
Step 2
Women enjoy the touching and cuddling much more that men seem to. Hold her for awhile. Make her feel safe.
Step 3
If you know your woman is dying be intimate, make her wait a little. Kiss her from head to toe, lick her body.
Step 4
Pay special attention to the neck and ears. The ears in particular are a sensitive erotic spot for most women. Just a little nibbling and blowing.
Step 5
Run your fingers all over her body very gently. Do not lick it like a hound dog though. Gently, gently.
Step 6
Some women like breast fondling and others do not. Do not assume that all women enjoy this. The breasts are a very sensitive area. Focus on this area to some degree, but do not get carried away.
Step 7
You will know when she is ready for intimacy. Be sure to follow her lead. Women are all about emotions. If you can get in touch with her in an emotional sense, you will be surprised at the level of intimacy that can be achieve
Tips & Warnings
Do not rush. It takes time to get this right.
Pay attention to facial expressions.
If she is reading a book or watching tv there is a problem.
Light scented candles, throw rose petals on the bed.
Women love the romance.
Make her feel special. Look into her eyes.
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